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Why can’t everybody just be like me?

Now that we have explored the one extreme of the scale when it comes to give and take, we are ready to see the other side.  If you are interested in catching up on what’s been done so far, please stop reading, fill in your details on the right and download the e-book so you [...]

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Are you giving too much? – Part 3

In the previous post I explained potential reasons why some people choose to give up their Highest Values (i.e. what they need or want most), for others.  There is also another side to this story, but I wanted to give you that information first, otherwise you are likely to put yourself into this category without [...]

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Are you giving too much? – Part 2

If you have not read Part 1 of this series, please click here to catch up. So far we have mentioned that there are some underlying reasons why people will ignore what is most important to them and choose to follow other people’s Values instead.  I also mentioned that you can only take care of [...]

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Are you giving too much? – Part 1

Our values are like a hidden priority list that is stored in our minds.  Every second of every day we get bombarded with information from the external and internal world, but there is no way you can process all this information.  Before your reality is created, your mind has a filtering process that only allows [...]

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I feel all warm and fuzzy…

Ever felt warmth in your heart that is linked to a tear in your eye… all just because you look or listen to something so beautiful, you cannot explain it in words?  It could be a sunset, a mountain, a waterfall, a small puppy, newborn baby or a masterpiece by Mozart. Some things in life [...]

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I am the little voice in your head…

You are probably thinking… what else could there possibly be that shows you what is important in your life?  Well, have you ever overheard people talking to themselves?  Everybody has a little voice in their head… this voice usually expresses whatever is on your mind.  Not everybody talks out loud;  some people keep it purely [...]

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What results are you getting?

Everybody always talks about goal setting, whether in business, sports or finances, but not many people really understand what goals are or how they work.  To prove this point, think about the amount of times you have spoken to people who say they will be doing something in the future, but it never realises.  How [...]

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Why don’t you just take a photo…?!

I don’t know if you have realised this yet, but if I talk about my holiday, telling you about the lovely beach I went to, with white sands and palm trees… you are making pictures in your head of whatever I am saying.  Ever heard somebody say: “I can picture that”?  That is because they [...]

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If you could talk, what would you say?

Have you ever met somebody who never says a word, and then suddenly, out of nowhere, somebody brings up a specific topic of conversation… and this “somebody” cannot stop talking! How often does it happen to you that you get caught in a conversation where time flies and suddenly you realise you missed your lift [...]

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What are your thoughts on …?

Have you ever noticed that there are some reoccurring thoughts running around in your mind?  Or even better yet, have you ever walked down the road when suddenly you notice that people are staring at you, only to realise that you were actually saying out loud what you were thinking in your head?  The things [...]

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